Dating tips for plus-size women that will make your size your superpower Posted by Admin
Dating as a plus size lady is not an easy task. We are living in the world full of body-shamed images. While it’s hard to control them, we are attacked by others and forced to be “perfect”.
All those factors, plus, a lack of help available for fat women who want to date often and effectively, makes dating a nightmare for all BBWs across the globe.
In this article we will give you a few extra tips how to treat your plus-size as a superpower!
1. Show off yourself!
Overweight girls are always taught to hide bodies, not showing them off since they are “no perfect”. In fact, nobody is perfect and BBWs shall not be afraid to take as much space as needed. Wear clothes which make you feel sexy, even if they leave some parts of your body uncovered.
First of all YOU need to be comfy with your body, and then let partner discover sexuality together.
2. Take risk!
There’s a saying “no risk no fun” and we do agree on this matter. Do not be afraid to take a risk in dating, even if this might end up with rejection. Being rejected is a natural process while searching for love and even slim and “attractive” ladies might get kicked out.
Being rejected do not depend on size! If there’s a cute guy near you, ask him out!
3. Don’t run after the person who wants you. Go for the person who YOU want to date!
Unfortunately, this is very serious & common problem. Most of the curvy girls have a justice, that they cannot desire someone because of size. All they can do is run after a guy or girl who put some interested in them. Being a BBW do not mean that you have to date & marry the first person who is into you.
Furthermore, if you're not attracted to the person approaching you, feel free to say so. Go out, take some time and discover your best match!
4. Be confident about who you are!
This is an obvious one, but some BBWs have a lack of confidence from early teenhood. Be sure to know your value, love yourself & show it to a potential partner. You are valuable and show it from the beginning while dating!
5. Do not go to “invisible dates”
So there’s a cute guy who wants to spend time with you, but suddenly he proposes to meet up in the middle of the night? Unfortunately, some guys are ashamed to show off with BBW in public and trying to hide them in front of others. Late night dates or chilling out only at home are not the perfect way to date!
Choose guys who are not worried to meet you in public, spend time in fancy restaurant or cinema.
6. Recognise the difference between being desired and being fetishized
Sadly there might be a thin line between being desired and being fetishized and you shall learn how to distinguish it.
Spotting the signs of fetishization, like being encouraged to gain weight, getting fatty & sweet foods from your date, being repeatedly referred to as a BBW, get touched here & there often, and having a lot of conversations that reference the size of your body is a RED flag!
7. Dump anybody who is not comfy with your size
Talking about you in the term to BBW, bad compliments about size, weight-related jokes and any other rude behaviour shouldn’t be tolerated!
Your size does not make you as a victim of non-funny & fatphobia reactions.
Mind all the tips we gave you and be a queen of your dating life!