What it's like to be a plus-size woman who dates thin guys? Posted by Admin
Dating is a crucial part of our life and sooner or later everybody will be on demand for finding the perfect partner for marriage and serious commitments. However, finding love and relationship is not that easy if you are a representative of specific niches, in this case, a BBW. BBW which stand for Big & Beautiful woman is a community of chubby or obese ladies who are proud of having extra kilograms but still willing to fall in love and share emotions with someone special.
Judgment might be a real problem here because society is not that open minded yet about plus size ladies and their dating preferences. Most of the thin people claim that plus size ladies shall be interested in chubby and obese guys only because this is something “they deserved for”. This is so wrong because some slim guys are rather interested in dating BBWs then skinny girls. Plus size who is hanging out with masculine guys is judged by others (even family and friends) who cannot understand that the fact that she is chubby doesn’t mean that she cannot meet slim guys.
2.Difficulties in finding partner
When you are plus size it’s rather hard to find perfect partner especially if you are looking for him through slim and sporty style guys. You might be rejected quite fast and quite easily if you spot feelings towards the wrong person. This might be depressing and let you down for a while. Every chubby girl needs to make sure that the guy she is looking for is into dating BBWs as well. This is frustrating for most plus size ladies.
Online dating seems to be fair enough when it comes to finding a slim partner if you are a BBW. Not only there are specific dating services for extra kilograms ladies and their admirers but even dating apps like Tinder makes it easier. While offline dating, you can be approached by a guy who is not interested in you and just make fun of you, in the online world it’s not common. On dating services, you will be contacted and matched only with someone who is really into BBWs and their chubby bodies and receive messages from guys who are clearly interested in you. It seems like finding a thin partner online is easier and looks like a piece of cake.
No matter what your preferences are, if you are a plus size lady and like to date slim guys, just go for it. There’s a plenty of fishes in the sea who are waiting for your contact. Never give up and follow your heart!